“Kids have to exposed to different things in order to develop. A child is not going to find out he likes to play a musical instruments if you never exposed him to…”

– Dr. Temple Grandin

Writings of my daughter, aged 8.

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Like mother, like daughter

There you are again

Always on time

Never miss a day

With your warm greetings

With your contagious smile

With your sincere eyes

With your neatly ironed clothes

Asking what I want

Serving my favorite tea

Of course

Because you’re the waiter from the cafe.

Dating

Last night, while doing the dishes my 4 years old daughter was talking to me.

Daughter : Mom, was dad just sleeping over with us?

Me : Why do you ask?

Daughter : Because you already drove him away from our house. He just here because he misses us, his daughters.

Me : (Speechless)….

children
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Sleepover

As a child.

I’ve grown-up seeing my father abusing my mother. Still, I’d respected them for being my parents. Though, I hate my dad for treating my mom like that. And I hate my mom for allowing it to happen.

As a teenager.

I met a boy who taught me how it is to be loved. That love is different to every individual. I learned to forgive what my parents been through. The boy met another girl. And he chose her over me. I hate him for that.

As an adult.

I’ve been happily married for 5 years. Had a great time with kids on my side. After two years, the marriage was over. I hate myself for that.

 

Cycles

“Marriage is not a problem. Getting married for the wrong reason is.”

There are two sides in every story…

Why focus on the bad side, when you can have the good side to live by?

“There is no such thing as a “broken family.” Family is family, and is not determined by marriage certificates, divorce papers, and adoption documents. Families are made in the heart. The only time family becomes null is when those ties in the heart are cut. If you cut those ties, those people are not your family. If you make those ties, those people are your family. And if you hate those ties, those people will still be your family because whatever you hate will always be with you.”
― C. JoyBell C.

“DIVORCE isn’t such a tragedy. A TRAGEDY is staying in an unhappy marriage, teaching your children the wrong things about LOVE. Nobody ever died in divorce.”                           

-Jennifer Weiner

People do not get married planning to divorce. Divorce is the result of a lack of preparation for marriage and the failure to learn the skills of working together as teammates in an intimate relationship.     

Gary Chapman

” Divorce is a fire exit. When a house is burning, it doesn’t matter who set the fire. If there is no fire exit, everyone in the house will be burned! “

Mehmet Murat ildan

The ads commercial was quite liberating in a country where divorce is illegal.
In a place, where you always blame for the misbehavior of a child just
because his/her parents were separated or divorce.

I am not an expert in the legality of marriage or something like that. My religions point of view has nothing to do with the way I see and observed married couples.

Is divorce really has something to do with the way you treat people?

It’s just a LABEL. It’s just a STATUS.

The case of Mr & Mrs